Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
I mean it.
That victim mentality will get you nowhere. I know because I’ve lived it.
Oh boo hoo I can’t have sugar. Oh wah I can’t eat gluten. Poor me, everyone gets ice cream and I get to just sit here. COMPLAIN WHINE COMPLAIN MOAN WHINE.
Whenever I start to get into that zone of mind, I have to stop myself and think:
HEY.
You can walk. That’s fucking awesome.
You can SEE. You have beautiful working eyes that serve you every minute that you are awake.
You have money to buy clothes and food and not starve.
You can hear melody and voices and birds and laughter.
You have friends and family who love and support you.
Why the fuck should you get to feel sorry for yourself?
It’s easy to wallow in self-pity. Very easy. I’m not pretty/smart/healthy/popular/talented enough. Poor me.
But the fact is, you can accomplish many things and be a very happy person. But you have to kill the victim inside you.
The question comes down to, are you willing to break those bad habits and kill that person?
<3elle
